This is so annoying. So this guy that I used to have a flirty thing
over the last couple months, we were really good friends and basically best friends
before and afterwards the whole sch-bang. But when we were texting the other
night I saw that some other girl was posting on his wall saying, “I can’t wait
to see you soon!! <3” And that really made me mad, and frustrated especially
since she posted that on my birthday when me and him were supposed to hang out
and go out for dinner. Which he ‘couldn’t come because he had plans with his
family.’ No. You were probably hanging out with this other chick. So being the
creeper that I am, I texted him saying,
“Can I be blunt with you? I don’t care if you didn’t want to
hang and go out to eat on my birthday but could you do me a favor and not lie
to me about it? Thanks.”
Him – “Uh.. I had plans with my family”
“So that’s that girl was posting all over your wall? Okay. I
don’t care just don’t lie to me. That’s bullsh*t.”
Him - “ I DIDN’T
FU*KING LIE TO YOU. QUIT ASSUMING SH*T. I MET HER A FEW DAYS AGO AND I WANTED
TO HANG OUT WITH HER OKAY? DON’T CALL ME A LIAR.”
Well. This is great.
So being the nice person I am, I send him 2 pages of text
saying I was sorry, I’m sorry for assuming things, it just made me upset, blah
blah blah. Only to have him not reply. I thought, Oh maybe he’s mad, I get
that. (Not really because you’re being a douche.) So I tried texting him about
a band coming to Iowa City he wants to see, no reply. This guy has basically
gone missing. So I had a class to him and I thought, I’m not going to annoy
him, if he talks to me great, if not it doesn’t happen. So he didn’t talk to
me. Or even look at me. This is so stupid.
After the class I talked to one of our mutual friends and
she told me that he’s telling people that, quote me on this, “She’s mad at me
because I have a girlfriend.”
Uh, no.
That is not the problem at all. Sure, I’m mad. I won’t lie
about that. But I’m mad at the fact you won’t talk to me, let alone look at me
anymore. You never text me back. And you basically act like I don’t exist,
which makes me feel horrible. I didn’t do anything wrong. I really don’t care
that you have a girlfriend. (UPDATE: They broke up after a few days.) What? I’m
not even hung up on this because I’m trying for us to be friends again, and you
won’t even give me that all. Let alone talk to me. I miss my best guy friend.
Why can’t it go back to how it was? I hate being in highschool.
I'm getting to the point when I'm about to confront you about this. Meh. But this isn't Jersey Shore and we have to stay classy. And also acknowlege I've been talking to someone else, so that should show you that I don't indeed care.
